8 mistakes Men make when approaching a woman :

8 mistakes Men make when approaching a woman :

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Think you know all there is to know about picking up
You will be surprised at these 8 mistakes most men
make when trying to approach a woman they like.
1. Starting Out On The Defensive
Ironically, the mistake a lot of men make when it
comes to approaching women simply fearing the
worst. This isn’t always true (at all), but once you
start believing it is you’ll immediately be on the back
foot, trying to think of solutions to problems that
really, haven’t even arisen. The last thing you want to
do is see any woman as a ‘challenge’ or as though
you need to learn any ‘tricks’ to persuade potential
partners to talk to you. Doing this will be what puts
women off, not the things you were initially worried
about. Forget what you’ve heard, approaching a
woman is not about game-playing. Women will
always rather get to know a friendly guy who means
what he says than someone who’s trying to play it
2. Wrong Place:
Everywhere you go is not a pick up zone — you have
to thoughtfully work out where you can actually
approach women you don’t know. There is no point
striking up conversation with a potential partner if
they are already in a situation where they don’t feel
like flirting: you’re dooming yourself to failure. For
instance, t’s a safe bet to stick to bars, when women
are more often than not feeling their best and
already in the mood for socialising and open to
getting to know people. The buzzy atmosphere of a
bar also means that you can casually make
conversation with less fear of rejection. Pick the right
place where you know she isn’t feeling stressed out
or busy.
3. Not Being sensitive to the situation:
Sometimes, women just want to go out drinking and
dancing. So seeing girl out having a good time does
not necessarily mean they want to be approached by
men. Be prepared that chances are that most people
won’t be that interested in hanging out with
strangers when they’re out to have a laugh with their
mates. And if you get the vibe that you’ve
interrupted a night that you’re not welcome on (if
she’s not continuing the conversation, if she’s more
interested in her friends) then just amicably excuse
yourself to the bar and carry on with your night.
4. Being too drunk:
Being with a man who is in control is important to
women. Women don’t want to be with a guy we have
to force feed water during a night out, help go to the
loo or keep from getting into fights at the bar. You’re
also way more to get distracted from the woman
you’re trying to talk to by other women, slur your
words and just be generally unapologetic and
annoying. Until you’re well into a relationship, avoid
getting too drunk.
5.Using Pick-up Lines:
Sorry, guys, but everything you’ve learned about
using pickup lines to start a conversation with
women is dead wrong. There is nothing cheesier, less
interesting or more of a turnoff than a guy who uses
a standard opening line. Why? It shows he lacks
confidence, period. It shows he’s literally spent time
reading up on the best way to approach a woman
and that he needs other guys to tell him what to say
and how to act. Whatever you do, a simple hello is
better than a bad line.
6. Not Asking Direct Questions
The worst thing a guy can do is come up to us and
talk about himself for the entirety of the
conversation. If you have to talk about how amazing
you are, it’s probably because you’re not. Asking
questions about her life shows you’re a considerate
guy, and there’s more of a chance we’ll feel a
connection — which will make it much easier to get a
7. Being Too Touchy
As a general rule — whether its approaching a woman
you don’t yet know, or progressing things further
once you make it to the bedroom, just echo the
movements she makes towards you. Wait for her to
make the move to make contact with you, and then
do that too. Build up to different parts of the body,
but do it following this routine. But regardless, don’t
do this in the supermarket because although you
might be getting good vibes from your partner in
crime, you will creep out the other shoppers.
8. Concentrating Too Much On Her, Not You
Often, a guy will concentrate too much on what a
woman’s reaction to him is rather than on the
conversation taking place. If you’re overthinking
what you’re supposed to say and where your hands
are supposed to be (in your pockets? By your sides?),
she’ll know. And it will get awkward. If anything, try
thinking of approaching a woman as starting a
conversation with a good friend — be casual about it,
be a good listener and let her talk. Another way to
think about it: If it works out you’ll gain a date. If it
doesn’t, what are you really losing?

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